At different times, psychologists indicate diverse proposals of winning and or winning love! For example, “I love you with lemon and salt, I love you exactly as you are, no need to change you at all.”(Julieta Venegas). “To win, you must fight, or so they say, but with love things never seem to work that way…To win in love you must surrender.” (Jonathan Richman). Undertaking to change one’s beloved and waiving to them are everyday strategies. Although each has some value, neither is practically leading the way to our unrealistic path to winning. To evaluate their effects, we need to consider the nature of love and the nature of change. In doing this, there is a better approach to winning, and that’s through love. Yes, let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. Then you will win favour and a good name in the sight of God and man (Proverbs 3:3-4). That’s it!!!