Jesus said: “When you stand praying if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins” (Mark 11:25). What’s more, this pardoning doesn’t rely upon a solicitation from the wrongdoer to be excused. Yes, it is absolution, which is dependent on your relationship with God, not your guilty party. Indeed, it’s forgiveness, which depends on your relationship with God, and not in any way by request from the individual who offended you. The forgiveness is based on your relationship with God, not your wrongdoer. That’s it!!!