Have you not heard that you are better off all round without bitterness? It’s spiritual to rid yourself of bitterness…lest any root of bitterness, springing up cause trouble’ (Hebrews 12:15).  The authentic approach is for you to love others as yourself as well as life continues to forgive others before the difficulty becomes entrenched in your feelings and starts feeding off your remembrances. Don’t accommodate bitterness of any kind! If you harbor resentment, it comes back to destroy you; meaning, the ultimate victim of your anger is you! That’s it!!!