Yes, the huge snag and or obstacle to God’s Grace is harshness or bitterness. A few people whine that they are not blessed by God as others have been. Why would God bless those who are bitter?  They don’t understand that in considering themselves, they open the entryway to harshness and close it to God’s Grace. I say to you, regardless of what occurs, we dare never be harsh or accommodate bitterness. That’s it!!!