Beyond the Celebrations in the Digital Age By Professor Ojo Emmanuel Ademola – Boxing Day Special Africa’s First Professor of Cybersecurity and Information Technology Management, Chartered Manager, UK Digital Journalist, Strategic Advisor & Prophetic Mobiliser for National Transformation, and General Evangelist of CAC Nigeria and Overseas

Beyond the Celebrations in the Digital Age By Professor Ojo Emmanuel Ademola – Boxing Day Special Africa’s First Professor of Cybersecurity and Information Technology Management, Chartered Manager, UK Digital Journalist, Strategic Advisor & Prophetic Mobiliser for National Transformation, and General Evangelist of CAC Nigeria and Overseas

The Digital Age has quietly redefined the way humanity celebrates. It has wrapped our festive seasons in a glittering web of connectivity, convenience, and curated moments, yet beneath the surface lies a profound shift in how we experience meaning, memory, and togetherness. On a day like Boxing Day, when reflection should deepen and generosity should flourish, we often find ourselves scrolling instead of seeing, posting instead of pausing, and performing instead of participating. The world has never been more connected, yet the soul has never been more at risk of subtle disconnection. To go beyond the celebrations in this era is to reclaim the essence of presence, purpose, and human communion.

The Illusion of Celebration in a Hyper-Connected World

The Digital Age has given us the impression that connection is effortless. With a tap, we can reach relatives across continents; with a swipe, we can share our festive moments with hundreds. Yet this same ease has diluted the depth of our encounters. Celebrations that once demanded physical presence, emotional attentiveness, and shared rituals are now filtered through screens that offer proximity without intimacy. The danger lies in mistaking digital presence for genuine closeness. We can sit in the same room yet be worlds apart, each absorbed in a private digital universe. The illusion is seductive: because we are constantly connected, we assume we are truly together. But the truth is that the Digital Age often allows us to be emotionally absent while being digitally omnipresent.

From Holy Days to Highlight Reels

Festive seasons have increasingly become stages for curated performances. Social media encourages us to capture, filter, and publish our celebrations, turning sacred moments into consumable content. The quiet art of treasuring memories in the heart has been replaced by the public ritual of posting them online. Boxing Day, once a time for reflection and generosity, now risks becoming another opportunity to showcase rather than to savour. The highlight reel mentality subtly shifts our focus from living the moment to documenting it. We begin to measure the success of our celebrations not by the depth of our gratitude or the sincerity of our interactions, but by the engagement metrics beneath our posts. In this transformation, we risk becoming spectators of our own lives, replaying scenes we never fully inhabited.

Consumerism with a Touchscreen

Boxing Day carries a rich historical meaning rooted in generosity, service, and the sharing of resources with those in need. Yet in the Digital Age, it has also become synonymous with aggressive sales, personalised advertisements, and algorithm-driven consumerism. Online platforms track our desires with precision, presenting irresistible offers that turn the day into a digital marketplace. The shift is subtle but significant: the spirit of giving is overshadowed by the pressure to acquire. When celebrations are framed as opportunities to buy more, upgrade more, and display more, we risk losing the virtues of simplicity, stewardship, and sacrificial generosity. The screen becomes an altar, and the rituals revolve around convenience and consumption. To go beyond the celebrations, we must confront the reality that if we do not intentionally define our values, digital markets will gladly define them for us.

Festivals, Identity, and the Disappearing “We”

Digitalisation has reshaped not only how we celebrate but also how we understand ourselves within the context of community. Festivals and gatherings increasingly rely on apps, livestreams, and virtual platforms that expand reach but sometimes diminish depth. Celebrations become hybrid experiences—part physical, part digital—where the line between worship, witness, and content creation blurs. While technology enables global participation and inclusivity, it also tempts us toward performance rather than presence. The communal “we” that once defined celebrations risks dissolving into a collection of individual profiles, each optimised for visibility. The shared story that binds a community becomes fragmented into personalised narratives. To resist this drift, we must reclaim the conviction that celebrations are not merely events to attend or streams to watch, but formative practices that shape who we are together.

Redeeming Boxing Day in the Digital Age

The Digital Age is not the enemy; it is a powerful tool that requires wise stewardship. Boxing Day offers a unique opportunity to recalibrate our relationship with technology and rediscover the deeper meaning of celebration. The day becomes transformative when we choose intentional presence over passive consumption. A deliberate pause from digital noise can create space for unhurried conversations, reflective silence, and genuine connection. Returning to the original spirit of Boxing Day means embracing generosity that is not transactional but heartfelt, directed toward those who cannot repay us. Embodied presence becomes a countercultural act—sitting at the table without the distraction of devices, listening with full attention, and allowing our physical presence to communicate value. Even when technology is used, it should deepen rather than replace connection, enabling meaningful conversations and thoughtful expressions of gratitude. When technology is placed in its rightful position as servant rather than master, it amplifies the virtues we fear losing: gratitude, generosity, remembrance, and unity.

Towards a Deeper Rhythm of Life

Beyond the celebrations lies a more urgent question: What kind of people are we becoming in the Digital Age? If our festive seasons are hurried, our leisure digitised, and our memories outsourced to platforms, then our inner lives risk becoming shallow and fragmented. We may become constantly stimulated yet rarely transformed, always connected yet seldom converted to deeper love, justice, and responsibility. But this trajectory is not inevitable.

Nonetheless, we can choose a different rhythm—one where celebration is not an escape from reality but a rehearsal for a more humane society. Boxing Day can become a deliberate reset, a moment to realign our priorities around service, humility, and thoughtful living. Instead of consuming experiences, we allow experiences to shape our character.

The Quiet Paradox of What Truly Matters

The paradox of what really matters is that we often recognise its value only when noise fades and urgency dissolves. We chase achievements, applause, and accumulation, yet discover too late that meaning hides in quieter places – presence, purpose, and people. What appears important rarely endures, and what endures rarely clamours for attention.

The Digital Age will continue to accelerate, offering more immersive and persuasive technologies. Our task is not to chase every trend but to anchor our celebrations in timeless truths: the dignity of each person, the sanctity of presence, and the calling to love, give, and build.

In the end, the essentials of life are simple, but the world trains us to overlook them. The paradox is not that meaning is hard to find, but that it is always near, waiting for us to finally notice.

Conclusion: Beyond Noise, Towards Meaning

Beyond the celebrations in the Digital Age lies an invitation to rediscover what truly matters. The world may be filled with noise, notifications, and digital performances, but the human heart still longs for meaning, connection, and purpose. On this Boxing Day, let your choices speak louder than any post. Step away from performative celebration and step into purposeful communion. Turn your attention from the endless scroll to the people and purposes that truly matter. History will not remember how impressive our digital festivities looked, but how faithfully we lived, gave, and loved in an age of glowing screens. That is the legacy worth pursuing—beyond the celebrations, deep into the heart of what it means to be fully human in the Digital Age.

 

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